Okay everyone, please go here before reading this going-to-be-incredibly-long post:
http://aponderingheart.com/blog/?p=353#comment-1076 then (or perhaps before)
http://aponderingheart.com/blog/?p=341Not to go out and bible bash or get arrogant christian angry, but i hate to
seebiblically incorrect views, supported
witht he bible, reply to them, then get corrected and told
im biblically incorrect (which i found quite distressing to read). So,
eric and
paul, the only two that read my blog but also two
biblically sound guys, if u read this just i
seekign some other opinions. Okay.
So that first link up there is an article by this
home schooled girl in America called Jocelyn or something. She has
very different ideas to me and my primary concern is her idea about
God's perfect will for women. Not saying
I'm not open to other ideas, just . . . i
don't wanna
give the wrong idea, so below is my reply to he
r post, and
following her reply to my comment.
MY REPLY:Sorry to sound very critical in this comment, i think it might just be my nature :)I just
wouldn’t want any christian to read their beliefs into the bible.
Having only skim read much of this article and part one i may have got the wrong idea, forgive me if i have,
particularly in relation to this first point:I hope you are not condoning the belief that men are above women and that we are not created equal; we are created equal but differently. And, although i would need to check this, i
believe that men are to be in authority within the church, in regards to teaching the word (something being sadly ignored increasingly by many churches). Your mention of college (or university here in Australia!) being full of unbelievers and partly reason not to go worried me. Our great commission in this world is the preach the gospel to all! How are we to do this if we don’t know any unbelievers because we keep away from them out of fear of influence? (I believe genuine personal relationship to be the most effective form of evangelism.) Influence by the secular world is a concern, but having non-christian friends is not the only way we are influenced by a sinful world. we live in it!I also must, finally before i earn myself the
reputation of an arrogant, severely opinionated
Christian (perhaps too late?), emphasise that i don’t
believe God’s single, utmost role for women is to be married. (1
Corinthians 7). In fact, the previously mentioned passage states that we can do more for the work of God single than we can married! Which appears to some to be against marriage at all - but it’s not. Many women never do marry, and without the cares of a
husband or family, that woman can focus wholly on the work of the Lord, such as in
mission (not to say only single women may perform mission
successfully, but it’s certainly,
in a sense, ‘easier’). The most important work that God has set before us is to go into the world and be a light - to have such love for ‘our
neighbour’ that our utmost concern for them will be their eternal future and as a result we will share the gospel with them.Again, sorry if this sounds overly critical, but i just wanted to express my concerns. I would be deeply concerned if i have expressed any of this in such a way that it appears
biblically incorrect.
Plus there’s probably lots of typos sorry, i just can’t seem to type
without them.So anyway, just an attempt at constructive criticism,
please don’t be offended.
HER REPLY TO ME:Hi there Allison [Editors note: okay, she called me
allison. My name was there cut and copy!
lol],Thanks for taking the time to comment and state your opinion. Here is my reply:
“I hope you are not condoning the belief that men are above women and that we are not created equal”First of all, men and women are created quite differently. Some things they are equal in, some things they’re not. Men and Women are absolutely spiritually equal in God’s sight. We are both sinful, and we both need God’s grace to be forgiven. However, the Bible portrays clear and distinct roles for men and women. Men are to be leaders, and women are to be followers. The Bible does NOT say that women are to be submissive to all men. Girls are to be under the authority of their fathers and wives are to be under the authority of their husbands.
I definitely agree with your statement here “men are to be in authority within the church, in regards to teaching the word (something being sadly ignored increasingly by many churches)”. You are absolutely right. This is clearly stated in 1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
I think that the whole idea of “going to college to fulfill the Great Commission” is one of Satan’s lies to get people into the world, especially young ladies, when
satan knows their place is at home. Satan is the Father of Lies and he has been working on his techniques of
conniving Believers into such situations and beliefs for AGES. You said you
didn’t really read my post, and I would encourage you do so AND read the comments.
The Lord can use ANYTHING for His glory. He is God, but that
doesn’t mean it’s his PERFECT will for your life!
Are you saying that because you’re not going to a public place you’re not fulfilling the Great Commission? I believe that in everything I do and say, if it is of Christ, it will be a light and a witness that Jesus Christ is reigning in my life and that he is Saviour of ALL! Besides the fact that I know of several young ladies who are taking college at home.
Please make sure you read these comments:
http://aponderingheart.com/blog/?p=353#comment-1073http://aponderingheart.com/blog/?p=353#comment-1076As for your comment on i don’t believe God’s single, utmost role for women is to be married. The verse you referred is often used out of context. The verses before Paul talks about remaining single are about man and woman being married, and THEN he says “I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.”, which is him saying it’s not the Lord’s commandment or words. Those are Paul’s, a human’s, words. Not God’s. In the beginning God made woman to be the
helpmeet. That is purpose and design. It is God’s plan for woman to marry.
In the Beginning God made Adam and then he made Eve to be a
helpmeet to Adam, to her husband, and to bear him children. That is our purpose as women. Not that we are lowly, worthless creatures because we ARE NOT! But did God change our design since the beginning? No.
I don’t believe in single woman being missionaries. I believe that if she is to go to another country, it will be with a man and she will be his
helpmeet in that ministry. Just because many great women have done works for the Lord,
doesn’t mean that was His plan for her. The Bible says there is God’s acceptable will, his good will, and perfect will (Romans 12: 2). Obviously I would want the perfect will but that is not always possible. Read here:
http://aponderingheart.com/blog/?p=367I think you are mistaken about your view on single women. In Genesis 2:24 says that a man is to leave is wife and mother and cleave unto his wife and they shall be as one flesh. So if you’re not going to marry, you are to remain under your parents, doing everything to serve the Lord.
Please don’t ever believe that being a wife and mother is burden, which prevents you from focusing on the Lord. I know a great many women who are married and are fully devoted to serving the Lord, and they do. Besides do we realize that when Jesus gave the
GC he was only talking to his disciples? Not to the multitudes? Now, this
doesn’t mean we
aren’t to share the Gospel, because we are. However, it
doesn’t mean that everyone is called to the work of a missionary and go out into the world. The Bible says they will know you are my disciples if you love one another - which means if we are
Christians people should be able to see that in EVERYTHING we do.
I really do thank you for taking the time to write out all your thoughts on the matter, but in some areas, I think you are truly misinformed and some things you are
Biblically-incorrect.
Blessings to you!
So hopefully you can see what
I'm worried about?
The verses before Paul talks about remaining single are about man and woman
being married, and THEN he says “I speak this by permission, and not of
commandment.”, which is him saying it’s not the Lord’s commandment or words.
Those are Paul’s, a human’s, words
First
I'm worried at her
saying anything in the bible is not god breathed or the word of god. I s
ee her point but . . .
I also don't really understand what she means when she says that the verses about remaining single are about being married??If anyone has an idea? But
I'll say that the verses that deal with being single are
about being single. We've had a sermon on that passage and it was very clear i thought.
That is purpose and design. It is God’s plan for woman to marry.
I can't coherently form a reply to this statement. But
I'm sure its not correct. Please help?
Because that is her big thing. She goes on to say that because women are to be submissive and be
married we can't go to college or be
missionaries while single.
College? University? So while we wait to get married, we
hang around home and suck our parents money while we could be out earning a living of our own. I can't
remember the reference (sorry)
but Paul tells possibly the
Thessos (?) to make sure they work by their own hands and are
not a burden on anyone. What if the women never marries? Sorry Jocelyn, but you seem to think everyone will marry, but they don't. What happens when her parents die? What does she do then? she's a burden to society.
Plus, as i said in my reply to her article, I don't think God's perfect will is for women to get married! It's for us to tell
everyone we can about Him!! If we are held back form doing this because we're single (as in
being a missionary) what does that say? She also said:
However, it doesn’t mean that everyone is called to the work of a
missionary and go out into the world. The Bible says they will know you are my
disciples if you love one another - which means if we are Christians people
should be able to see that in EVERYTHING we do.
Which was in reply to my comment on her
saying college was full of non-
Christians but i said if we cut ourselves off from
non-
chritsians, how are we to evangelise? No not everyone is to be a missionary, but we are all called to spread
God's word, which means in a sense we are all
called to be missionaries. Get me? What use is it to say that people will see we are christian by our acts if we don't SEE non-christian people at all. I wasn't saying your actions can't show our faith. In fact i said
personal relationship is a very
effective form of evangelism, and tied up in that is that person seeing just by the way you live that there is something different.
Ahh guys i feel
I'm doing a bad job at presenting a
biblically correct view (spec. as i don't quite the bible!). I think
I'm pretty bad at
explaining stuff but just an opinion would be nice if you can spare the time?? And i
don't want to go back and be like HA look at
this. I was right do
dooo.
So yeah, long post, but important.
I'm just worried! I hate
biblically incorrect views!! And her going on abotu a helpmeet was a bit perplexing. God designed woman ebcause man needed her so he wasn't lonely, not just to look after the home i thought. If there's some part of the Bible that supports that and i've missed it . . . enlighten me please!! She quote a verse that said something about women (among other things) keeping the home but *sigh* that surely isn't decrying any career for women if they keep home as well? ahhh
(Seriously that bit that said i was truly misinformed was totally upsetting, cos i take it as a comment on everyone who's taught me!)
[Editor's note] okay so this girl has thoroughly confused me as to what she'd saying. I think she'd totally against women havign a career. But she talks of some people who run their own business and says she wants to pursue graphic design and publishing? She quote the bible for her view, but times were different then would be my reply. As i have said, sh'es thoroughly confused me.
:( i'm sad now.